7 Years ago we started on a journey that we thought would only take a few months. This journey has taken up most of our marriage and is all our children have ever known. My mother-in-law lives on acres of wooded property and had always dreamed of sharing it with her boys. While her sons were growing the laws were changing and restrictions were put on her land. Her sons married and moved on.
We had been married a little over a year, with a new baby and renting a cramped one bedroom cottage. Money was tight, we were completely unprepared for real life and found ourselves losing hope of ever getting out of this hole. I had done some research and found a loophole in the land restrictions. My curiosity grew as I realized we fit all the requirements for the grandfather clause. We prayed and felt such peace and excitement that we decided to pursue it.
We knew that we would have to apply for subdivision approval and there would be many fees along the way. We moved in with my parents thinking it would be a few months and we could save up the money we needed. Our temporary living arrangement turned into a year and a half.
There were delays and disappointments, piles of bills for engineers and surveyors, tractor rentals and soil testing. We were trying to do a major subdivision to turn one lot into four, and ultimately had to hire a lawyer to get us through all the red tape.
Over the years we have tried to be patient, but we never put our life on hold. We moved into a small house during my 2nd pregnancy, again thinking it was temporary, and have brought 4 babies home here. As our family grew, this little house has become smaller and we have had to be creative to make it fit our needs.
I've learned a huge lesson in patience and contentment through these years. I know that God had His perfect timing through it all. Our needs and wants in a home have changed so much since we started this journey. I know we weren't ready then.
Yesterday, our modular home was finally delivered to our lot. It is not yet set on the foundation, but it's our home. As we walked through it, I could picture the kids helping me cook in our new kitchen. I could imagine where we would put our Christmas tree, but mostly I saw a new life for us. A life full of new excitement after years of waiting.
I am still in shock. It doesn't seem real that it is actually happening. We've talked and prayed and dreamed for so long and now it is hear. I know this is not the end of our journey. It is just the beginning of a whole new adventure.